Community

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We are honored that BlogHer thought enough of our "Pedals" post to share it on their website. (Thank you, Rita.)

If you are a blogger, thinking of becoming one, or are a fan of it, consider becoming a part of the BlogHer community (gentlemen are welcomed, also). Oh, there's no fee or monthly dues or anything like that. It's more like a modern sewing circle or quilting bee. A place where you will meet others, have a chance to chat and exchange ideas, thoughts, opinions and come together.

I must admit, I had been blogging for nearly a decade before I became a part of BlogHer. I'm not much of a joiner, you see.  But, within minutes, I had met some extraordinary women: Anaiis Flox, The Bloggess, Deb on the Rocks, Kristy, Maggie Dammit, Andrea and our own Melanie. These women have made me laugh, cry, think and have given me support. I consider them all friends, even though I've only met one in person at this point.

Being an author, I joined The Red Room, a community of writers and readers, where I met Ericka. Yet another friend I have yet to meet IRL (that's web speak for "in real life"), but whom I respect greatly for her talent, humor and grace. It's rather amazing the connection we can have with virtual strangers...or should I say virtual friends?

Social media has changed the way we look at relationships and engage in them. Those we follow on Twitter or friend on Facebook without knowing them personally are something like the pen-pals of this modern age. We share things -- the highs, the lows, the silly and the serious -- and come together as if there were a needle and thread pulling us together. Even if it's only through the web of the Internet, it is a strong community.

Thank you, BlogHer, for your part in it and for giving us a place to "sparkle".